GUILT is THE MOTOR that keeps us UNLUCKY, so that WE PUNISH OURSELVES 24/7.
GUILT is written on our faces. Guilt has to be dealt with or it will actually attract you the scorn of others, lead you to make bad friends and through them, create bad events, even (mysteriously) some quite RANDOM ones! We all walk around with a bulls-eye target on our backs, emitting such a bad vibe that other people think "he must know what a wuss he is.......so I'll believe him!"
In CIVILIZATION AND ITS DISCONTENTS, Freud develops the theory of the superego, (the judgmental inner patriarch we're all dragging around, the one who makes us eat broccoli. ) Freud studied the internalization of aggressiveness ...because our PATRIARCH doesn't want us to get mad, it's been suppressed out of us by parents since childhood, 'don't blow up, don't strike, don't bite,' ) and humanity's tendency is to redirect rage, hitting, biting back onto the ego with the consequent creation of guilt, which expresses itself as a "need for punishment." And this primal guilt is, according to Freud, rage against the breast. Oral aggression. And sublimation of that rage is the origin of a very tweaked civilization. Supposedly, if we have a need for punishment, it manifests as inflicting a bad lifestyle on ourselves.
None of us can remember the days when we were angry at the breast, at Mom for how she conducted the whole feeding thing, then the toilet training. But could you go back and remember your first curtailments by civilization and its demands? And how you reacted? And where or when you lashed out or acted out? Or where ungraceful training by your parents turned you into a fearful, GUILTY little infant? Laying down track to become a permanently guilty person who felt he/she had little worth? Could you count the guilts you have? You aren't going to remember childhood guilts but how about those related to people that you love? More up to date failures on your part? Those are the worst guilts.. Failure to do things, sins of commission, omission. MAKE A LIST. This is gonna get ugly. But we are doing a CLEANSING OPERATION here, so give it a shot. You will soon have a list of a lot of people to whom you didn't give enough. As you loved them, rarely did you betray or hurt. But if you did, it's on the list. NOW, the cleansing involves:
LOSING THE GUILT.
THE CATHOLIC CHURCH'S APPROACH TO GUILT. CONFESSION
PART II CATHOLIC METHOD: ROSARY & EXPIATION, PROMISES, VOWING
HINDU APPROACH TO GUILT
The MASTER JULES approach to guilt.
SIGMUND FREUD's CURE FOR GUILT http://www.pbs.org/youngdrfreud/pages/analysis_guilt.htm
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